親愛的書睿弟兄，我的未婚ㄤ：
謝謝你安排這次的香港行程，豐豐富富、充充滿滿。
這是我們兩個人第一次一起的旅行，旅程才一開頭就有精釆的爆點特效，感謝主！正當我躲在牆角自責那比電線桿粗壯的神經，眼看著很可能親手就要搞砸這四天三夜時，你正臨危不亂運用向來“穩重”的優勢，如期的帶我飛，感謝主！上帝好棒！蕊蕊好棒！我…也好棒！因為我是乖羊，聽上帝的聲音、等候，最終…遇到你！
昨天晚上的三不回政策－不回答、不回頭、不回眸，我深深感到萬分的抱歉，因著神的愛，我要翻轉、學習的還有許多的數不清，謝謝你的等待和耐心，提醒我溝通的藝術，今後還請多多指教！
我愛你，一丁點兒也沒少！
今後只會有增無減～
永遠的只漲不停板～
Miuer 09//9/7
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Thursday, August 6, 2009
預備好的。
mIU：我零八年初寫的。
When I look back 2007, apparently there were a few things deserved to be mentioned. As my good friends and partners, I would love to invited you again to have a walk with me for the amazing 2007…
What were the events I mentioned in the last few days?
Here we go…
10. Line-up Taiwan (Dec 2006 ~ May 2007)
9. Doulos Asia trip (March~ November)
8. Taking a role as a manager (April ~ November)
7 Leaving the ship, again, for the very last time
6 Traveling team in back to Taiwan and Hong Kong
Now the top 5 countdown started... things getting serious!
5 Commitment issues (and the fact I am 31!)
Yes, I admit that. I have issues.
The fact that I am 31 and still single bothers me a bit more than ever. (That's right. I am honest with you.) Well, my big boss director Daniel Chae and his wife Helen had been monitoring my "progress" for a while. Before I left DOULOS, Helen once told me (very serious) "you need to find a nice girl and get married as soon as possible". I kind of knew she had someone in mind for me. Well, it is not like nobody interested in Ray, frankly speaking. Or, on the other hand, as if I am not into any romance or potential partnership… Ok, I admit it is cool to be single and free. I enjoy most of the time when I don't have to argue where to go for dinner, what movie to go, how to plan my schedule for next week, or when to pick up my laundry.
It is not like I had never been seeing anybody. Actually, before leaving DOULOS, I was one of the only few people who had applied SP (social permission) twice. However, you know, God has a different plan in my life.
Meanwhile, as I walked through the final phase of DOULOS ministry, there were sisters who had shown their goodwill to me. I somehow sensed a mixed feeling. One side of me really enjoyed being cared, accompanied, and appreciated; on the other hand, I also felt sorry for them because at this stage of my life commitment was a vague hope. I was very honest with everybody and myself. I cannot afford the luxury to be in a relationship or whatever before the end of my time with DOULOS. It had been a hard year for me in 2007. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem promising in this year to come, since I am once again standing in front of the crossroad.
On top of all these, what make things more complicated is many of my buddies either were married or getting married in the near future. 25~33 to many seems like a "must- married" zone. I am happy for all of them, indeed. However, for me it was like a tough step to take. Yeah, I know. I have issues.
I will appreciate your prayers, but not too much pressure or judgments.
Hopefully, towards the end of 2008, I can write you some positive progress in this area.
To be continued…
Ray in New York
........................................................
是的
初期在調查[ 彭書睿] 的身家背景時
已經拜讀過了
親愛的
讓你久等了
我們彼此經歷一點點生命的高山低谷
你繞了地球一圈之後
2009年的那個時刻
終於相遇在民生東路四段133號的那個十字路口
感謝主
祂的計畫總是奇妙
Hopefully, towards the end of 2008, I can write you some positive progress in this area.
Gratefully, towords the end of 2009, u can write them all positve progress in this area.
很高興認識你
有你最好
妙
When I look back 2007, apparently there were a few things deserved to be mentioned. As my good friends and partners, I would love to invited you again to have a walk with me for the amazing 2007…
What were the events I mentioned in the last few days?
Here we go…
10. Line-up Taiwan (Dec 2006 ~ May 2007)
9. Doulos Asia trip (March~ November)
8. Taking a role as a manager (April ~ November)
7 Leaving the ship, again, for the very last time
6 Traveling team in back to Taiwan and Hong Kong
Now the top 5 countdown started... things getting serious!
5 Commitment issues (and the fact I am 31!)
Yes, I admit that. I have issues.
The fact that I am 31 and still single bothers me a bit more than ever. (That's right. I am honest with you.) Well, my big boss director Daniel Chae and his wife Helen had been monitoring my "progress" for a while. Before I left DOULOS, Helen once told me (very serious) "you need to find a nice girl and get married as soon as possible". I kind of knew she had someone in mind for me. Well, it is not like nobody interested in Ray, frankly speaking. Or, on the other hand, as if I am not into any romance or potential partnership… Ok, I admit it is cool to be single and free. I enjoy most of the time when I don't have to argue where to go for dinner, what movie to go, how to plan my schedule for next week, or when to pick up my laundry.
It is not like I had never been seeing anybody. Actually, before leaving DOULOS, I was one of the only few people who had applied SP (social permission) twice. However, you know, God has a different plan in my life.
Meanwhile, as I walked through the final phase of DOULOS ministry, there were sisters who had shown their goodwill to me. I somehow sensed a mixed feeling. One side of me really enjoyed being cared, accompanied, and appreciated; on the other hand, I also felt sorry for them because at this stage of my life commitment was a vague hope. I was very honest with everybody and myself. I cannot afford the luxury to be in a relationship or whatever before the end of my time with DOULOS. It had been a hard year for me in 2007. Unfortunately, it doesn't seem promising in this year to come, since I am once again standing in front of the crossroad.
On top of all these, what make things more complicated is many of my buddies either were married or getting married in the near future. 25~33 to many seems like a "must- married" zone. I am happy for all of them, indeed. However, for me it was like a tough step to take. Yeah, I know. I have issues.
I will appreciate your prayers, but not too much pressure or judgments.
Hopefully, towards the end of 2008, I can write you some positive progress in this area.
To be continued…
Ray in New York
........................................................
是的
初期在調查[ 彭書睿] 的身家背景時
已經拜讀過了
親愛的
讓你久等了
我們彼此經歷一點點生命的高山低谷
你繞了地球一圈之後
2009年的那個時刻
終於相遇在民生東路四段133號的那個十字路口
感謝主
祂的計畫總是奇妙
Hopefully, towards the end of 2008, I can write you some positive progress in this area.
Gratefully, towords the end of 2009, u can write them all positve progress in this area.
很高興認識你
有你最好
妙
RE: 天父給女人的一封信...
From: i-ting_chen@
To: miuerlin@
Subject: from Miuer
Date: Wed, 15 Jul 2009 08:36:42 +0100
親愛的紜仔妹妹，
謝謝你的分享！感謝 上帝！
這真的是一封很美的信！在祂眼裡我們是多麼的珍貴，祂為了成全男人造就了我們！
自從我和康庭結婚之後，他就常常跟我說：We are ONE! He found the very important piece of his body.
Without me, he will be a failure. 我也很感謝天父，祂創造了康庭，讓他知道我的珍貴！
我真的有說不多出來的喜樂，妳找到你的主人了(可以回到屬於妳的身體)
上帝不但聽到我們的呼求，還應許妳的未來！
Almighty God!
很高興有妳的分享，讓我們經常分享 神的話語，一起在基督裡成長！
You are in our prayers!
Love
I-Ting
tkx for our almighty Father.
we r on the way of the graceful path.
love u.
miu
To: miuerlin@
Subject: from Miuer
Date: Wed, 15 Jul 2009 08:36:42 +0100
親愛的紜仔妹妹，
謝謝你的分享！感謝 上帝！
這真的是一封很美的信！在祂眼裡我們是多麼的珍貴，祂為了成全男人造就了我們！
自從我和康庭結婚之後，他就常常跟我說：We are ONE! He found the very important piece of his body.
Without me, he will be a failure. 我也很感謝天父，祂創造了康庭，讓他知道我的珍貴！
我真的有說不多出來的喜樂，妳找到你的主人了(可以回到屬於妳的身體)
上帝不但聽到我們的呼求，還應許妳的未來！
Almighty God!
很高興有妳的分享，讓我們經常分享 神的話語，一起在基督裡成長！
You are in our prayers!
Love
I-Ting
tkx for our almighty Father.
we r on the way of the graceful path.
love u.
miu
Sunday, June 28, 2009
在非洲的最後一個晚上
這裡還有十五分鐘就十二點了，明天一早七點鐘接我的車就會在樓下等待，我應該準備要關機。這幾個禮拜一路在非洲大陸上奔走，看到的聽到的感受到的，和我帶來給這裡的團隊的都是滿滿的感受和祝福。
只有一個不圓滿，就是妳，我的BETTER HALF不在身旁，就悵然若失。但我知道妳跟我在一起，就算我們相隔多遠，用SMS幾個字，SKYPE斷斷續續的通話，或是，EMAIL裡面的一張照片，都在訴說著濃濃的感情。
麥克傑克森前天死在自己家中，孤獨一個人。他站在世界的最頂端，卻也是最孤寂。我一點都不羨慕他的一切。
非洲的觀點都很實際。不論是衣索比亞或是剛果、肯亞的朋友們見面第一句都問，你幾個小孩了？我說，我還沒結婚，他們都不可置信，甚至上綱到「這傢伙還不算是個真男人」。我除了用「我過去的五年都在當宣教士」各個冠冕堂皇的理由以外，似乎無力招架他們的關愛。
尤其是他們都有四個五個，甚至九個孩子。我跟他們解釋什麼叫做「頂客族」（DOuble incomes no kids)效果也似乎不彰，總是覺得我們沒有創造宇宙繼起之生命。
然而我可以神氣的說，我有一個「未婚妻」，比所謂的女朋友更厲害的（馬上把照片搬出來）！因為我來非洲前已經大聲勇敢的跟她求婚了～～
真想和你分享這些人聽到這個消息後如釋重負的表情。
「你算是走在對的到路上面！」他們拍拍我的肩膀，不論是大媽或是社區的長輩們。
「那要有幾個孩子呢？」「下次要和太太孩子一起來！」「生四個吧，我們平均是六個！」
呃，你們太得寸進尺了吧。
妳說對不對阿，馬麻？
Tuesday, June 2, 2009
愛上一顆花心！？
接到電話，傻眼的聽完，心想：天！沒想到有隱藏在大街小巷、根本不認識我的姨媽、嬸嬸，居然關心著八竿子都打不著他們的事，但！我自己會判斷，我相信我絕對有這能力！（在此同時，捏著大腿、心裡大聲呼喊著：親愛的！你也讓我生活太充滿驚奇了吧！阿娘喂！啊～）
當下的感覺極為不舒服，但我靜下來禱告，透過禱告得以安靜。
我相信你，因為信靠上帝，我深信因為有上帝，不會再讓我錯愛，祂為我也為我們持守，為祂揀選的負責。如果不是上帝，懷疑與懼怕肯定漫天飛，那還得了。我相信你，時間是從我們開始的那一天起，你的過去發生了什麼天崩地裂的事，我不得而知，但我只想快點開始寫我們的故事，過去的都過去了，我們都從過去當中學習到許多寶貴。我相信你，因為我們的相愛是那麼的真實！而且我們都希望那份愛可以延續經營一個幸福的家庭，多麼的美好！
幾年來，我不斷禱告，我要遇見那個祂為我預備的他，
這幾個月，讓我更知道你，也因為進一步認識，看到更多的你－
‧ 抬頭仰望神的生命，工作加上數不清的服事累到不行，但堅定相信神掌權，為主奔跑、交託人生
‧ 勇敢的活著！關關難過關關過的至理名言，讓我不太需要擔心天蹋下來
‧ 我們都不是含金湯匙出身的孩子，深知緊緊抓住神加上全面的努力才是金ㄟ！
‧ 勇於面對人生的驚奇，可以一起嚐試不一樣人生
‧ 我的人生有一些不可打破的原則，你的人生常是不按牌理出牌，我們在相同的當中，擁有要命但可愛的差異，這樣的１+１，真是上帝的恩典
‧ 你很願意敞開心跟我溝通跟我們有關的一切，學習聆聽（希望三十年後我仍然可以驕傲的這樣說）
未來，讓我們一起增加愛的厚度與廣度，一起經歷生命中的喜怒哀樂、善惡美醜！親愛的我的寶貝睿！加油！好好去愛！盡情享受擁有彼此、牽手開啟人生新頁的美好！
Miu 09/6/3
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